My objective is to assist you in finding the person you were always meant to be.
I was born to a teen mother who was addicted to drugs. There was limited to no food with abuse of every kind from people who were supposed to love me. As a result, I learned to care for everyone else first and expect to receive little to nothing for myself.
I wanted someone to love me enough to rescue me from that life. So I got a boyfriend and a pregnancy at the age of fourteen that changed my life but I still did not have the love I was searching for.
Fast forward, to a marriage at nineteen where I was in love with being in love and now mother of two. I was hoping for that fantasy relationship that I had always dreamed about. Instead, after two years of marriage my husband became addicted to crack cocaine. Oddly enough, the same drug that captured my mother’s heart. I tried to hand in there and support him during treatment but again I drew the short straw. This went on for over ten years but I had to leave for the sake to my children.
I moved to another state. Not really interested in a relationship but that is exactly what I got. It worked out well enough for over ten years then I noticed something wasn’t right. I wasn’t happy and we weren’t moving in the same direction.
Now I began questioning myself and what I may be doing wrong. Was I making the right decisions or could I be doing something differently? Am I being selfish for wanting to be happy? I feared loneliness because I’m already far from my family. I was beginning to question my own self worth and love itself. Was I worth loving? I just wanted to have that old school type of love from my family and from the man in my life. I just wasn’t sure how to get it.
The funny thing, I am the person that others perceived as having it together so now I felt like a failure in their eyes too. I could not tell anyone what I was dealing with because they were used to coming to me for comfort. So I suffered in silence.
Until I got some help with my mindset. I believe that is why I have endured the trials in my past. I am here to help you learn from my experience and even triumph from your own experiences.
Secrets about me……..
I come from a long line of roller skaters. You know those people that could do those amazing circles, dance, and other tricks on four wheels. Yep I used to, well……..maybe I could not do all those things but I loved to get out there and learn. I did enjoy my aunts and uncles out there doing amazing tricks. I was even told how wonderful my father was on skates.
Second, music can fix almost any mood that I’m in. I have grown up on old school music. When I am feeling down I can turn on something old and feel the good time in it. You should give it a try. It can change your life!!
Third, listen closely. I’m going to whisper this one. I cry a little during movies that are emotional. I try to tough it up and act like i’m not but I do. Shh, don’t tell anyone. I’m also a sucker for a good love story. I really like to see when someone who has had it rough finally finds their happiness. It makes me smile so big!!
Lastly, I love love love to read. I would rather pick up a good book than to sit and watch a movie. I find that I am very visual so I can see the story in my head as I read. Share some titles with me and I will check them out.
All these qualities have given me the desire and ability to be Your Coach. I want to help you get to the other side of your reality and find happiness in all your relationships.
Join me for a session and see if we are a fit. I am so excited to hear your story.
The Relationship Coach
I am truly aware of the discomfort which comes along with difficult relationships and getting help can be a challenge. I provide a personal growth transformation for my clients because of the importance I place on learning your personal needs. I am a positive perspective for your situation with the mission to get you where you want to be in the relationship. I am your safe place to deposit your most vulnerable details. I went into relationship coaching because I understand there is a lack of knowledge when dealing with certain situations and I love helping put a smile on the faces of others. When do you smile more than when you are happy in your relationships? I love to laugh and smile while spreading that to others.